المرجع: صحيح البخاري · البخاري · ج 7 · ص 14 · المطبوع (دار طوق النجاة): 5124 · حرف (موسوعة الحديث الشريف): 4925
صحيح البخاري
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بَابُ قَوْلِ اللهِ جَلَّ وَعَزَّ وَلا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا عَرَّضْتُمْ بِهِ مِنْ خِطْبَةِ النِّسَاءِ أَوْ أَكْنَنْتُمْ فِي أَنْفُسِكُمْ عَلِمَ اللهُ الْآيَةَ إِلَى قَوْلِهِ غَفُورٌ حَلِيمٌ أَكْنَنْتُمْ أَضْمَرْتُمْ وَكُلُّ شَيْءٍ صُنْتَهُ فَهُوَ مَكْنُونٌ 4925 5124 - وَقَالَ لِي طَلْقٌ حَدَّثَنَا زَائِدَةُ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فِيمَا عَرَّضْتُمْ يَقُولُ إِنِّي أُرِيدُ التَّزْوِيجَ وَلَوَدِدْتُ أَنَّهُ تَيَسَّرَ لِي امْرَأَةٌ صَالِحَةٌ وَقَالَ الْقَاسِمُ يَقُولُ إِنَّكِ عَلَيَّ كَرِيمَةٌ وَإِنِّي فِيكِ لَرَاغِبٌ وَإِنَّ اللهَ لَسَائِقٌ إِلَيْكِ خَيْرًا أَوْ نَحْوَ هَذَا وَقَالَ عَطَاءٌ : يُعَرِّضُ وَلَا يَبُوحُ يَقُولُ إِنَّ لِي حَاجَةً وَأَبْشِرِي وَأَنْتِ بِحَمْدِ اللهِ نَافِقَةٌ ، وَتَقُولُ هِيَ قَدْ أَسْمَعُ مَا تَقُولُ وَلَا تَعِدُ شَيْئًا وَلَا يُوَاعِدُ وَلِيُّهَا بِغَيْرِ عِلْمِهَا وَإِنْ وَاعَدَتْ رَجُلًا فِي عِدَّتِهَا ثُمَّ نَكَحَهَا بَعْدُ لَمْ يُفَرَّقْ بَيْنَهُمَا . وَقَالَ الْحَسَنُ : لا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا الزِّنَا وَيُذْكَرُ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ الْكِتَابُ أَجَلَهُ تَنْقَضِيَ الْعِدَّةُ .
English translationإظهار الترجمة الإنجليزية
"And there is no sin on you if you make a hint of betrothal or conceal it in yourself..."
Ibn `Abbas said:
"Hint your intention of marrying' is made by saying (to the widow) for example: "I want to marry, and I wish that Allah will make a righteous lady available for me.' " Al-Qasim said: One may say to the widow: 'I hold all respect for you, and I am interested in you; Allah will bring you much good, or something similar 'Ata said: One should hint his intention, and should not declare it openly. One may say: 'I have some need. Have good tidings. Praise be to Allah; you are fit to remarry.' She (the widow) may say in reply: I am listening to what you say,' but she should not make a promise. Her guardian should not make a promise (to somebody to get her married to him) without her knowledge. But if, while still in the Iddat period, she makes a promise to marry somebody, and he ultimately marries her, they are not to be separated by divorce (i.e., the marriage is valid).
Translation and grade from Sunnah.com — Sahih al-Bukhari 5124 ↗